How Do You Manage Life and Internet Marketing

On my last post about planning your business actions I got a great comment and it’s one I thought would be worth answering in a new post. Here’s the question (copied from the comments ~ formatted a little for easier reading)

Great post Jackie, agree with you totally on goals and planning sheets.

But do you allow for time-consuming things like an email from PotPieGirl (who I have learned to listen to, and respect) heavily promoting something like ‘Plug & Play Niche’. Do you take time to check it out – either now or later in the day – and then spend time deciding if it’s for you or not? Or David Risley offering you a free 60 odd page report which you feel you must have. And then spend the time to print it out for reading, and possible ongoing actioning?

Then there is a thing you briefly refer to called LIFE. You obviously spend time on this, having Hanna, a husband, and a home. How do you build this into you Plan? I know that if a branch falls off a tree, it’ll fall on on electric fence. At least 1 hour to fix! Apart from daily grooming, animals need exercise & attention. This can take several hours. And so on!!!

I’m not disagreeing with you, but in comments to your posts, I hear nothing about this sort ‘distraction’ from a planned path from those commenting. I’d very much like to hear from you and your members like me, just how they build all these factors into their LIFE and their schedule.

(I know there are many out there who are building the IT working activity around full-time and part-time employment. I admire them for this and I don’t know quite how they cope).

Regards
RUSSELL

Russell, this is an excellent question and it’s an issue everyone who works for themselves or works from home must answer at some point if they are going to be successful. I can’t tell you how everyone does it, but I can share with you how I “manage” this ~ and it IS a work in progres… always.

1. Identify the time of day that I work best. I fought it but at some point realized mornings were the time I worked best. (I really thought it was late at night lol) I find it easiest to write, concentrate and focus in the hours before noon. (It happens that those are Hanna’s best behaved hours too ~ lucky me!)

2. Identify the actions that are going to move me forward in my business. Since I do have coaching clients and interacting with my community is a big part of my business I do check my email in the morning. HOWEVER… it’s a cursory glance and the only thing I take action on is blog comments or questions from clients. All else is left  until later. If it’s something I really want to check out  I’ll star it in my email folder.

If you don’t have clients I would leave email until after you’ve finished the most important task of your day. Email can turn into a serious time suck… get your “work” done first.

3. Take time for myself FIRST. I take 15 to 20 minutes to go outside for some meditation. I do this before I do anything ~ to get me in the right frame of mind. I usually hook Hanna up with PBS and she’ll hang in for that short time.

4. Breakfast ~ for both of us.

5. Set Hanna up with some activity that will hold her attention for 30 minutes to an hour.

6. Start and complete the highest priority action. (Usually a blog post/guest post or working on free report or paid product on non blog days)

7. Take a break ~ this usually means checking my email again for questions/comments and actually looking at anything that sounds interesting **** that fits what I am doing****

This one’s key ~ you asked about plug n play ~ does it fit what you are doing now? If it doesn’t I wouldn’t even click the link. Don’t keep looking at things that are going to get you distracted.  Same thing with the free ebook from David (which is REALLY GOOD ~ IF you want to be a blogger!!) If you are doing something else ~ save it in a folder for later when you are working on being a blogger) I only open emails, check out links that are going to benefit/help me do/do better what I am focused on.

This is where having clarity about what you’re doing, where your business is going is very helpful. You will know if it fits your business model or not! It also makes it much easier to not get swayed by all the possibilities that are out there.

8. Set Hanna up with something new if she’s lost interest in what she was doing.

9. Tackle the next highest priority on my planner.

etc etc…

I don’t make appointments during my “work time”. I don’t schedule family stuff during my “work time”. My work time is my work time, and I work.

Come noon ~ whole other story. I’m outside playing in the pool, taking a walk, gardening, living life.

Of course, I check in on my email ~ I tweet through the day… in fact, I have a harder time staying AWAY from the computer, and I have to work on that daily.

The thing is… I LOVE what I do. I get excited about waking up and getting on the computer. I enjoy writing blog posts, and answering questions and helping clients ~ I really do. So it’s not like when I used to have to force myself to get in the car and go to a J.O.B., I have to work to get myself off the computer and spend time doing other things. :)

My schedule works for me, and the things you need to do in your life may create a schedule that looks different than mine, but I really think the key is to choose your time… and then make it YOUR time (whatever time frame that looks like ~ it may be 3 separate blocks of time with other tasks in between).  Don’t let horses, kids, husbands, a house, or potpiegirl invade your time you need to be working.

With that said… stuff does happen. If it can’t wait until your work time is over make a note of where you are so you can pick up where you left off, and get back to it as soon as you can.

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I find it tough, a 9-5 internet marketing then extra ciriculum internet marketing. Theres not enough hours in the day to do it all.

It really inspiring. The main point i got form this is that we have manage are time and be focused on our work

I find the biggest obstacle for me to get over is completing my wife`s long ToDo list she leaves for me every morning ;)

I find it very difficult to get motivated and stay focused now that the weather has improved resulting in more outside chores. But yet again I made my wife happy when I took down the exterior xmas lights last week.

For me, I manage it by being really stubborn and to develop routines. The tendency is to want to work all the time but as the dishes pile up and I realize I still haven't gone to the gym - I know this isn't a good thing.

I've made a routine of going to the gym. I try to keep the house tidy by setting the timer for an hour and cleaning that amount each day. As far as having a personal life, I value time spent with my husband and going out, so I make a lot of time for that, too. I even tag along on business trips. :)

This flexibility is why I chose to work from home, so I need to take advantage of it. ;)
.-= Katherine´s last blog ..Just Joined Wealthy Affiliate – One Day Until Rate Increase! =-.

Yes, I do my housework and gardening ~ hubby does the lawn. I *try* to work the Flylady program ~ which is setting up simple routines so clean in 5 an d15 minute spurts, and once you get an area clean you just do a quick thing to keep it clean. ex. swiping your toilet and wiping bathroom counters in the morning when you're done. Takes a second but keeps the bathroom looking nice.

Dishes was always my downfall ~ I have finally wrangled a little routine that keeps my dishes done, and the kitchen relatively clean. I also at some point decided that having a spotless house (like I grew up in) wasn't the most important thing to me and let go of the guilt. I do laundry on Sundays (sometimes, like today, in between trips to the lake to fish).

Mondays we go to the library in the afternoon ~ and then come home and vacuum the house.

Gardening is part of fun and learning in the afternoon.

All in all what I've learned is coming up with little routines or "rituals" that are part of my day that make it easy (er) to keep up with the house.

Jackie,

This post will really help a lot of people out, including myself.

Now I have another question that may or may not be pertinent to you. Do you do your own housework and yard work? Where do you fit that in?

My biggest problem is working full time and then coming home to a messy home. I feel guilty when working on housework because I know I should be doing something online and vice versa.

B
.-= Bcarter @ Making Money Online´s last blog ..Starting a Small Business Website =-.

Yeah it sure was easier to spend 16 hour a day in front of the computer when I didn't have a little one dragging me out of my chair! It's kind of nice now to realize I don't have to necessarily put in 16 hours a day to continue to create success.

For better or worse, I don't have much life outside of my online one. For now, that's probably a good thing, as I'm just getting THIS schedule down.
.-= Dennis Edell @ Direct Sales Marketing´s last blog ..Less is More – Here’s My Current To-Do List =-.

Hi Jackie, I love this post. This is my biggest struggle to date. I built my money-making website from about 1997 to about 2002, because I wanted to, because it was fun, because I was really interested and passionate about it.

In 2003 (when I put google adsense on it) it started making me 30,000 a year. In 2003 I had a child whom I now homeschool.

I have spun my wheels for 8 years now, and I still make that same 30K a year. I LOVE that 30K and it has enabled me to not have to work forever - but now it's time.

I will no longer sit in my office for 3 hours and clear my inbox and read a bunch of other people's stuff and call that working! That's now working! That's not making me a cent!

So here I go. thanks. Lisa
.-= Lisa´s last blog ..Win a Really Cool Ring; It’s Easy! =-.

Hey Jackie! This is a great post. I can certainly relate because I can get overwhelmed trying to find time for family, a full time job, and blogging. I make a list every Sunday of what I want to get accomplished for my blog for the week. Sometimes I get it all done and sometimes it's a struggle. I've learned over the last couple of months that there are several things that I can squeeze in when I only have a small amount of time to work. Every check mark that I make against the list is another step forward.
.-= Tina´s last blog ..The Power Wheels Ford Mustang Convertible =-.

Yes, often psychological. But I just wrote and submitted two new articles, even though I've been feeling ill for a couple days, so maybe I'm getting back on track. Thanks for all your encouragement!
.-= Nancy@Cat Supplies´s last blog ..Cosequin Sprinkle Capsules for Cats, 80 Capsules =-.

I get it, and for me it was the thought that I couldn't do it that held me back. when I said, what the heck, let's try it and see what happens I surprised myself with what I could actually do. :)

I know I need to practice shifting gears quicker. It always takes me so long to get my brain to concentrate. Too many distractions....
.-= Nancy@Cat Supplies´s last blog ..Cosequin Sprinkle Capsules for Cats, 80 Capsules =-.

That's tough Nancy. If you know exactly what you need to get done taking small steps consistently will get you there. I used to think 15 minutes wasn't enough time to get anything done so I wouldn't start anything if I didn't have an hour or two to work. Now I have realized 15 minutes can accomplish quite a bit! So even if I only have 15 minutes I will sit down and work on the next thing on the list. :)

Sometimes it's our perceptions and frustrations that can stand in our way.

If only my time were my own to schedule. I was doing good and moving forward when my job only required 3 hours a day. But now that I'm back to full-time, I no longer have those hours to schedule. And working an odd shift smack in the middle of the day leaves little time on either end. I'm doing much less online than I was, and I am frustrated. I keep plugging along, doing what I can, but I find it hard to stay motivated this way.

Nancy
.-= Nancy@Cat Supplies´s last blog ..Cosequin Sprinkle Capsules for Cats, 80 Capsules =-.

Very inspiring post Jackie!

You are causing me to become more and more focused as the not only days go by but MINUTES!

This past week was BY FAR the best week in my business. 45 days into my new blog and 6 months in to blogging!

I am extremely excited for what is in store next week. And, I am beginning to live a life, enjoying myself more... another benefit of following the primal blueprint... Law #7 = Play. Something I did NOT do for many months prior to living this lifestyle.

Again, this was incredibly inspiring and I can relate to you a lot. And, my mother, who I am starting a blog for, will be able to relate very well too. I will point her to this post.

Thanks :) Now, go enjoy your weekend - you deserve it!
.-= Primal Toad´s last blog ..Hunter Gatherer Study from In Defense of Food =-.